Patience is a virtue or „Haste makes waste!“

Patience is the skill to live with unfullfilled desires and wishes. You have to wait for something, that is the main part. In my social environment I know lots of people who have no patience. For them it is very hard to be patient. They want to achieve their aims immediately. There are no time to wait. The most reasons for this misery is shortage and perfectionism. There are lots of situations where the impatience can be expressed.

For example:

You have a meeting and you are at home. You have calculate 30 minutes to come to the meeting by car. But at home you want to finish different tasks. Suddenly you realize that you are late and you run to your car and drive fast to your meeting. Unfortunately you have not consider the big traffic in your town. You are standing at the traffic lights with your car and you cannot wait until the traffic lights go to the green color. This makes you angry and you are hooked. It is a bad feeling.

This is a short example for your impatience. As you probably know there are many other examples about impacience. This example show that many factors can be play a role to get in impatience. It is not just a situation it is a process.

Of course many persons are impatient by nature, you can see different tips below how to improve this circumstance.

But all in all....you can change something!

If you feel adressed than read the following steps to defeat your impatience.

• Improve your time management! (As you have already read in the example)

• Don' t think that everything must works perfectly. Inconvinient interruptions are parts of your life.

• When you know you are impatient by nature, accept it!

• Check, whether your impatience help to achieve your aim. When you think about this aspect you will realize there are no reason to be impatient.

• When you have a problem and you want to solve it in one hour, you mast share the problem in different parts and you can praise by yourself for little successful results.

These little instructions can help you to deal with impatience and have a better feeling in your daily life. You realize that you are more patient and you are more serenity.

Finally, think about the phrase „Haste makes waste!“ and you can help yourself for a good feeling.